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Monday, May 22, 2017


Miscarriage And Fetal Heart Rate

Just before one of my miscarriages, I had an ultrasound.

 The first thing the doctor said when he came into the room after the PA had the ultrasound positioned on my baby was "the heartbeat is slow". I started to get this sinking feeling like he was giving my baby a death sentence. 
 See Also My Story About Overcoming Miscarriage and Recurrent Miscarriage
Well...I know it wasn't his fault, he was just the messenger--I did lose the pregnancy.
Many women wonder what a normal fetal heartrate should be. Here is a site that explains more:

"What should my baby's fetal heart-rate be?
The normal fetal heart rate is between 110 to 180 beats per minutes (BPM), but can vary. Fluctuations of the fetal heart rate (usually associated with fetal movement) during different periods of the day are common and often rise above 160, going as high as 180 to 190 and are considered normal. If you have questions or concerns about your baby's fetal heart rate always direct them to your healthcare professional.
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What hearing a healthy heartbeat signifies
Listening to a normally beating heart using a fetal ultrasound doppler as early as 8 weeks can offer reassurance and cut down on a lot of stress and help assure that the developing fetus is healthy. While miscarriage occurs in only about 15 percent of apparently normal pregnancies, it only occurs in about 1 percent of pregnancies where a normal heartbeat has been seen or heard."


Friday, May 19, 2017


Well, I finally have something in common with an Olympian....6 miscarriages.  Nancy Kerrigan, the Olympic skater and Dancing with the Stars celebrity opened up about how hard it was for her to complete her family.  Even though she had her first child uneventfully, she subsequently suffered recurrent pregnancy loss.  She finally succeeded in completing her family with IVF.



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But as easy as her first pregnancy had been, it would be eight years before she would become a mom for the second time.
“The first time that you go in and they tell you, ‘Oh there’s no heartbeat,’ it’s devastating,” Kerrigan says of suffering “at least” six miscarriages in the years after giving birth to Matthew.
“I felt like a failure,” says Kerrigan, whose doctors were never able to determine why she kept miscarrying.
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Making matters worse was having to tell Matthew that he would have to wait to become a big brother.  “Once, the pregnancy was far enough along that we actually told our son and he was so excited,” says Kerrigan. “How do you explain [a miscarriage] to a little kid? Having to tell them that it was now gone and they had to take it out? He asked why and we had to explain, ‘Because it’s dead. It’s not alive anymore.’ That was awful.”

Monday, May 15, 2017


A Woman Must Recover Her Qi and Get Relief From The Emotional Strain Of Miscarriage

Here is an interesting article about miscarriage and what it does to a woman from a traditional chinese medicine viewpoint.

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 I could certainly relate to some of the information presented here about recovering from past miscarriages before  trying to conceive again.  Not only do you need your "Qi" back, but you must also recover from the emotional strain of miscarriage.

From the article:

he process of maintaining a pregnancy past the 1st trimester is much like driving on a paved country road for 3 months without veering off onto the soft shoulder. Being pregnant with suboptimal balance
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is much like driving a car with two wheels on the soft unpaved shoulder of a road. If all four wheels get on and stay on the paved road, the pregnancy will go on. But, there is higher chance for all four wheels to slide off onto the unpaved soft shoulder and get stuck, or for the patient to miscarry.

A woman, who experiences miscarriage, loses Qi (vital energy) and Blood according to TCM as well as fetus, meaning that a miscarriage is as draining to a woman's energy as labor. Indeed there is a saying that proclaims ¡®a miscarriage is more serious than labor. If a proper treatment is not made after miscarriage, imbalanced condition can be aggravated so making her more difficult to get pregnant. With recurrent miscarriages, a woman can lose her hope and sometimes cannot overcome fear and depression that she may be unable to reach to 40th week of pregnancy. Actually this kind of emotional strain can aggravate imbalanced condition of body. Therefore, treatment plans for miscarriage in TCM include:

1. Recovery from losses of Qi and Blood due to recent miscarriage

2. Distress and relief of emotional strain

3. Correction of pre-existing imbalance of body

These purposes can be achieved well by acupuncture and/or Chinese herbs. Even though once pregnancy is achieved, continuous treatments by acupuncture and herbs up to 12th week of pregnancy can help a woman to prevent miscarriage.


Wednesday, May 10, 2017


Taking Low Dose Aspirin In Pregnancy

Taking low dose aspirin is something many women do - and is recommended by some fertility clinics. I also took low dose aspirin - even when I was trying to conceive naturally because I had heard that it could help with early miscarriage by eliminating small clots.

See also: for more on getting pregnant over 40 and preventing miscarriage 

 However, this article raises concerns about taking aspirin. Of course you should check with your doctor before taking anything in pregnancy. Read more:

Taking aspirin in early pregnancy may trigger a miscarriage, women were warned yesterday.

The claim by researchers has shocked doctors who prescribe low-dose aspirin thinking it can prevent some expectant mothers from losing their babies.

They warned the findings should be treated with caution. The miscarriage risk for women taking aspirin or similar painkillers could be sevenfold higher than for those not taking the drugs, the Danish study suggests.

It is the first to make the link, The scientists admit their findings do not show that taking aspirin actually causes miscarriage.

But the 'association is new and needs to be confirmed' by further investigation, says the study, published today in the British Medical Journal today.

Last night British experts urged mothers-to-be not to panic. They advised them to seek medical advice about what painkillers to take or to use paracetamol.

Dr Gunnar Nielsen and her team looked at the medical records of 1,462 pregnant women who had received prescriptions for nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory painkillers (NSAID) during the period from 30 days before conception to birth.

They also compared 4,268 women who had miscarriages, of whom 63 had taken aspirin or similar NSAID painkillers, with 29,750 women who had live births. Although such drugs have been suspected of causing a range of health problems in the unborn baby, the study showed no increased risk of birth defects, low birth weight or premature birth.

But an extra risk of miscarriage in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy emerged from the data. It found a
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doubling of risk for those who had taken aspirin between seven and nine weeks before a miscarriage, which rose to a sevenfold risk among women who took it up to one week earlier.

However, just three miscarriages were responsible for the figures giving a sevenfold risk and the researchers admit aspirin might have been prescribed to treat pain that signalled an impending miscarriage.

Professor Phil Baker, professor of foetal and neonatal health for Tommy's Campaign, which funds medical research into miscarriage, stillbirth and premature birth said NSAID painkillers should be used with caution during pregnancy.

'If a pregnant women needs a mild analgesic or painkiller then paracetamol is a relatively safe drug,' he said.


Saturday, May 06, 2017


 Nausea and Vomiting In Pregnancy May Protect Us From Harmful Foods

I had horrible nausea with all my pregnancies, especially my successful one.
 I have often heard that nausea can indicate that you have a healthy pregnancy because your hormones are strong (although I should mention that I miscarried a number of pregnancies with nausea).  Here is an interesting article about how morning sickness may be nature's way of protecting against miscarriage.   Apparently, it can keep us away from harmful foods which could affect our pregnancies.  Read more:



The analyses suggest that morning sickness occurs more often in pregnant women who consume high
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amounts of sugar, fats, alcohol, and meat. While, pregnant women who eat more cereal-based foods suffer less NVP. The results demonstrate convincing evidence that a connection between diet and morning sickness does exist and reinforces the scientist’s belief that an adaptive evolutionary link exists that nausea and vomiting during pregnancy serve to prevent the ingestion of harmful or toxic foods that may lead to miscarriage or harm to the developing fetus


Monday, May 01, 2017


Hormones and Miscarriage

There's quite a bit of controversy about whether or not progesterone can help women who experience recurrent miscarriage carry to term. Some articles say it can prevent miscarriage and other articles that claim there is no benefit at all. Here is an article about how some miscarriages may be caused by a sensitivity to hormones in which case progesterone injections would actually cause more harm than good. Read more:

"A new research carried on at the Sheba Medical Center in Tel Hashomer, Israel, might have shed some light on the origins of these unexplained miscarriages.

The scientists found that a immune hypersensitivity in women with recurrent miscarriage to female
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sex hormones (that regulate pregnancy), estrogen and progesterone, in skin tests. 

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This is a warning signal, as some controversial current therapies against miscarriages include progesterone injections.
“Previous studies had shown a connection between miscarriage and unusual immune system responses, but none had looked at the role of these sex hormones,” the researchers say.

The team injected the hormones into the skin of 29 women who had suffered at least three unexplained miscarriages, and 10 women who had successfully gave birth to a healthy, normal baby and never experienced a miscarriage.

26 women in the first group showed immune hypersensitivity to one of the two hormones, and 17 of them are hypersensible to both, while the women that had not experienced miscarriage were totally immune.

“This is really novel,” says Walker.

“It’s a small sample size but if the results are that profound, it definitely warrants more research.” 


Friday, April 28, 2017


I always say that misarriage has no boundaries.  I think we all tend to think that celebrities have it all and have the perfect life.  But, the fact of the matter is that they are regular people just like the rest of us and many of them suffer through infertility and miscarriage.  Here are some high profile celebrities who have opened up about their miscarriages:

P!nk revealed that was pregnant with her daughter during a 2010 episode of “The Ellen DeGeneres
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Show.” The singer said she delayed making the announcement because of her experience with pregnancy loss.
“I didn’t want to talk about it because I was just really nervous, and I have had a miscarriage before,” she said.



 In 2013, Gwyneth Paltrow told the Daily Mail’s You magazine that she experienced pregnancy loss after having her two children.
Discussing her children’s requests for a new baby sibling, the actress said, “I had a really bad experience when I was pregnant with my third. It didn’t work out and I nearly died. So I am like, ‘Are we good here or should we go back and try again?’

 BeyoncĂ© spoke publicly about the miscarriage she suffered before becoming pregnant with Blue Ivy in her 2013 HBO special, “Life is But a Dream.” The singer described her experience as “the saddest thing I’ve ever been through.”
 Like her famous onscreen character Monica, Courteney Cox also struggled with fertility issues. The actress had multiple miscarriages before carrying and giving birth to her daughter Coco. “I get pregnant pretty easily, but I have a hard time keeping them.” she told People magazine. 
 While pregnant with her twins Monroe and Moroccan, Mariah Carey told “Access Hollywood” that her first pregnancy with Nick Cannon had ended in miscarriage.

“It kind of shook us both and took us to a place that was really dark and difficult,” she said.


Wednesday, April 26, 2017


 Even if you did not grow up Catholic, you may still find some comfort in prayer to saints who are
associated with certain causes and conditions.  One of these is Saint Rita. 

Among the other areas, Rita is well-known as a patron of desperate, seemingly impossible causes and situations. This is because she has been involved in so many stages of life – wife, mother, widow, and nun.  Those who are trying to conceive or experiencing miscarriage may truly feel that getting pregnant and having a heathly pregnancy is truly an impossible cause.  But, sometimes the things that
we think are out of our reach can come easily.  I have done many blog posts on women who went through fertility treatments only to fail time and time again.  Then, miraculously, they get pregnancy by surprise.
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Monday, April 24, 2017


Recurrent Miscarriage Pregnancy Loss Can Be Helped With Chinese Medicine

 I really like the Chinese Medicine philosophy when it comes to getting pregnant over 40 or any age.
They look at the whole person rather than just giving drugs and medications to force your body to ovulate whether it's ready or not.  Treating some of the underlying causes of miscarriage will help  you carry to term.  This site does a good job of explaining the Chinese philosophy of treating infertility and the underlying cause of miscarriage:

 See also: for alternative medicine and home remedies for miscarriage

 From the principles TCM, our body must be in an “optimized” state of  balance before one can conceive.  To maintain a pregnancy, one must maintain the same balance.
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But such balance is not as clear as black and white, on and off, or zero and one state.  Instead, it is a bell-shaped curve with the highest point on the top as the state of optimal balance.  In other words, a woman can and often does get pregnant when she is in a suboptimal state.  But, it is this group of pregnancies that are often subject to the greatest chance of miscarriage after becoming pregnant without acupuncture and Chinese herbal treatments.  When the body’s condition deviates too far from the optimal balance point, there will be no more pregnancy.   The process of maintaining a pregnancy past the 1st trimester is much like driving on a paved country road for 3 months without veering off onto the soft shoulder.   Being pregnant with suboptimal balance is much like driving a car with two wheels on the soft unpaved shoulder of a road.  If all four wheels get on and stay on the paved road, the pregnancy will go on.  But, there is higher chance for all four wheels to slide off onto the unpaved soft shoulder and get stuck, or for the patient to miscarry.  

Let us look at the genetic factors.  When fetal tissues from miscarriages are analyzed, approximately 70% will have chromosomal abnormalities such as trisomies 13, 16, 18, 21 and 22.  In most cases, the couple is chromosomally normal.  Therefore, the fetal chromosomal abnormality is considered a “random” event.

This event is the result of a failed division of a pair of chromosomes.  Under normal circumstances, only one branch of the pair is copied  instead of the whole pair.   This condition occurs more frequently with the increased age of a couple.  As we age, optimal balance is harder to maintain and more is needed to restore balance for both partners of a couple in order to prevent miscarriages.  Acupuncture and Chinese herbal treatments help achieve this balance.  When eggs or sperm develop under an optimized condition, there is less chance of environmental damage to an otherwise genetically normal egg or sperm.
  The process of maintaining a pregnancy past the 1st trimester is much like driving on a paved country road for 3 months without veering off onto the soft shoulder.   Being pregnant with suboptimal balance is much like driving a car with two wheels on the soft unpaved shoulder of a road.  If all four wheels get on and stay on the paved road, the pregnancy will go on.  But, there is higher chance for all four wheels to slide off onto the unpaved soft shoulder and get stuck, or for the patient to miscarry. 

Endocrine factors.  Thyroid hormones TSH, T3, T4, Estrogen, and Progesterone all have a profound influence on the state of the optimal balance and vise versa.  Abnormal balance will in turn lead to hormonal imbalance.  Luteal phase defect is just an example of inadequate progesterone level or progesterone receptor response to the hormone.  

Circulatory factors.  This is one of the major factors in recurrent miscarriages.  Blood circulation to the pelvis is crucial in achieving and maintaining a pregnancy.  It delivers the necessary nutrients, hormones and oxygen, and removes the metabolic waste products.  Hormones FSH and estrogen need to communicate between the pituitary and the ovaries.  Such communications are done thru the blood flow and carry these hormones.

Friday, April 21, 2017


Uterine Fibroids

Guest Post By Dr. Miriam D. Martin

Fibroid tumors are benign growths originating in the uterus. The incidence of uterine fibroid tumors increases as women grow older, and they may occur in more than 30 percent of women 40 to 60 years of age. (American Family Physician 2007) Most women have no symptoms related to these tumors. However, there are some, who unfortunately, face a myriad of signs and symptoms related to fibroids.
The most common symptom is abnormal uterine bleeding. The periods may be heavier and/or longer. Spotting may occur between the normal menstrual cycle. There may be severe pain (dysmenorrhea) associated with fibroids as well. If the bleeding is excessive or prolonged, iron deficiency anemia may develop.
Depending on the size and location of the fibroids, additional symptoms and conditions may develop.
These may include:
  • pelvic pain
  • abdominal pressure
  • back pain
  • urinary obstruction
  • painful defecation
  • infertility
  • miscarriage
It is not known why uterine fibroids develop. Research done by the Mayo Clinic suggests:
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  • Genetic alterations. Many fibroids contain alterations in genes that code for uterine muscle cells.
  • Hormones. Estrogen and progesterone, two hormones that stimulate development of the uterine lining in preparation for pregnancy, appear to promote the growth of fibroids. Fibroids contain more estrogen and estrogen receptors than do normal uterine muscle cells.
  • Other chemicals. Substances that help the body maintain tissues, such as insulin-like growth factor, may affect fibroid growth.
Other potential risk factors which are being studied are:
  • Obesity. Some studies have suggested that obese women are at higher risk of fibroids, but other studies have not shown a link.
  • Oral contraceptives. So far, strong data exist showing that women who take oral contraceptives have a lower risk of fibroids. This is generally true for all women, except those who start oral contraceptives between ages 13 and 16.
  • Pregnancy and childbirth. Researchers have also looked at whether pregnancy and giving birth may have a protective effect, and so far pregnancy and childbirth seem to have a protective effect.
According to a new study, African-American women whose diet is largely comprised of foods that spike blood sugar levels may be at an increased risk of developing uterine fibroids. (Infertility and Miscarriage Examiner)
Diagnosis of uterine fibroids is generally made during gynecologic physical examination. The examiner may feel a mass or note enlargement of the uterus. Confirmation of the diagnosis can be made with ultrasound.
In general, uterine fibroids cause no symptoms and require no treatment. Until recently, the mainstay of treatment for fibroids was hormonal therapy or surgery. Since uterine fibroids are stimulated by estrogens, anti-estrogen hormones are used to shrink the tumors. However, there are many side affects to hormone therapy, i.e., osteoporosis, menopausal symptoms. As a result, hormone therapy is only used for a short time and the fibroids tend to recur once the therapy is discontinued.
The two main surgical interventions are hysterectomy (removal of the uterus), and myomectomy (removal of the tumors). Newer advances in the treatment of fibroids and their symptoms are uterine artery embolization (blocking of blood flow to uterine vessels leading to shrinking of the tumors) and endometrial ablation (destruction of the uterine lining).
If you are experiencing symptoms from uterine fibroids, discuss your options with your health professional. There are many options, other than hysterectomy available. Undoubtedly, with continued research, other techniques are on the horizon as well.
Dr. Miriam Martin is the Medical Director of MD Medical, Inc. located in Prince Georges County, Maryland. Her areas of specialization include Emergency Medicine/Family Practice, and Bariatric (weight loss) Medicine. The center focuses on the the physical, psychological, and nutritional health and well-being of individuals and families.
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Wednesday, April 19, 2017


Miscarriage:  Where Does The Baby Go?

I've talked to a number of women who've experienced miscarriage or recurrent miscarriage. When these women do succeed in having a baby, many wonder if one of their miscarried baby's souls "came back" into their baby.

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Obviously my official answer to this is "I don't know". All I can give you is my experience and my pick me) is she knew that I had the maturity and patience to deal with her strong personality. I frequently joke around and say "Any baby that can survive in my uterus must be pretty strong willed".
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opinion. Before my daughter was born, while I was pregnant with her, she moved around like crazy. I would feel her kick more than 40 times in one hour. After she was born she was and still is VERY active and has a real zest for life. She wants to participate in everything and she isn't one that needs a lot of reassurance or cuddling (I wish she liked to cuddle more). I think one reason she picked me as her mother (and I think she did

So in answer to whether or not one of my six miscarried babies came back as my daughter, I would have to say no. I think my daughter held on so tight there's no way I could have ever lost her pregnancy. I'm not saying that my babies who miscarried didn't have the will to live (and I try not to blame myself for not being able to give them life), it's just that my "gut" feeling is that they were all different souls.

I often wonder where they are and who they are. My daughter would have loved a sibling (and we're so happy with one, we never even coNsidered having another). Maybe we'll all meet again someday.

Monday, April 17, 2017


What The Bible Says About Having A Miscarriage?

Guest Post by:
Author: Albert Seal

"For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us." Romans 8:18 ESV
A miscarriage is especially damaging on the mother. Simply put, there is no more devastating experience than carrying a child—your child—in your stomach for nine months, nourishing it with your own body, singing it to sleep, only to give birth to a stillborn or a dead baby. But the miscarriage is painful to the father as well, of course, but it's still the mother that suffers the most from the experience. A miscarriage can really break a woman's spirit.
The trauma brought on by a miscarriage is one the reason why a pregnancy following a miscarriage has become a sensitive issue of debate for both Christian and non-Christian couples. It is not only the emotional bond of the mother to her new child that is at stake here – but also the Lord's stand on pregnancy following a miscarriage?
When is the right time to try again? What does the inspirational Bible verses say about having children following such a tragedy?


"Though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad—in order that God's purpose of election might
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continue, not because of works but because of him who calls—" Romans 9:11 ESV

As the father and breadwinner, it is understandable that you'd want to have children with your wife. But after a miscarriage, the situation becomes completely messed up.
First things first, you must consider her feelings. Is the pain still fresh in her mind and in her heart? Losing your child is no simple thing. You must be certain the wife is ready to take on the task of another pregnancy.
As the father, next you must consider her health. Is her body ready for another pregnancy? You need to talk to your family doctor about this issue. There are several reasons why women have miscarriages, and make sure the same reasons don't spill over to your next attempt at a baby. If the miscarriage was due to malnutrition, then be certain your wife is healthy and in good shape before you guys try again.
Here's an inspiring Bible quote:
"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations." Jeremiah 1:5 ESV
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Wednesday, April 12, 2017


Ectopic Pregnancy and IVF Frozen Embryos

Wow, I was astounded to read this article about how frozen embryos increase the chance of ectopic pregnancy.
I had two ectopics, which both were the result of IVF. Statistically, there is a higher risk of ectopic with IVF, but frozen embryos have a 17 times greater risk! If ectopic pregnancies rupture, it can be life threatening. Read more:



Using frozen embryos in fertility treatment raises the risk of a potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy by 17 times, researchers have found.

Using frozen embryos in fertility treatment raises the risk of a potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy by 17 times, researchers have found.

Scientists had thought that the risk of ectopic pregnancy was only slightly increased for frozen embryos compared with the use of "fresh" embryos. The American researchers said they had been surprised by the results and were not sure of the reason.

Alison Cook, a spokeswoman for the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority, which regulates fertility treatment in Britain, said the study was a "serious concern". "We have never come across these figures before. We will be studying the research," she said.

When a woman first has IVF treatment, doctors usually transfer between one and three "fresh" test-tube embryos into the uterus.
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In the past 10 years technology has meant that increasing numbers of couples are choosing to freeze some of the created embryos, giving them a chance of trying further IVF cycles if the first one fails. After the first attempt, women can use the frozen embryos without having to go through the painful process of hormone treatment, egg retrieval and fertilisation for a second, third or even fourth time.

Frozen embryo storage also allows patients having chemotherapy treatment and other women to create fertilised embryos and delay motherhood until they want to try for a family.

Doctors are becoming increasingly concerned at the effect of the freezing process on embryos. Last month, the fertility expert Lord Winston called for more research, and warned that some women were, in effect, being experimented on before the dangers were known.

A study carried out by Lord Winston's team at the Hammersmith Hospital in west London has shown that some types of embryo freezing may alter behaviour of a gene that supresses tumours. Delaying the transfer of embryos to a mother - another technique used in some clinics - also seemed to interfere with genes in animal experiments, he said.

The new study by scientists at Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island, to be presented to the annual confe- rence of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine in Texas today,has revealed more concerns. The researchers compared 2,452 cycles of IVF using fresh embryos, with 392 using frozen transfers. They found that 1.8 per cent of the fresh cycles led to an ectopic pregnancy, compared with 31.8 per cent of the frozen attempts.


Monday, April 10, 2017


Miscarriage Rates Are Hard To Quantify

It seems we keep hearing about higher miscarriage rates, but the rate of miscarriage may just appear to be higher because women have the ability to detect pregnancy so early.  I've seen statistics that up to 20% of pregnancies may miscarry - and on top of that, there are many unconfirmed conceptions and pregnancies which miscarry and are taken as a period.

I do believe however, that there are factors that may contribute to miscarriage that can controlled naturally - such as stress, exposure to toxins, use of certain medications, diet, etc.

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Thursday, April 06, 2017


Miscarriage and Uterine Lining Enzyme

I suffered six miscarriages before I had my daughter.  I frequently wonder if my change in diet and lifestyle might have changed my body chemistry to a point where I was able to conceive and carry to term.  All of my doctors put me in the "unexplained" category...and some just called me "too old".  But there may be more to the story.
If you've never heard of SGK1, you're not alone, I hadn't either. But, apparently, this enzyme in either high or low quantities may explain both infertility and miscarriage. Read more:


From the article:

Researchers from Imperial College London looked at tissue samples from the womb lining, donated by 106 women who were being treated at Imperial College Healthcare NHS Trust either for unexplained infertility or for recurrent pregnancy loss.

The women with unexplained infertility had been trying to get pregnant for two years or more and the most common reasons for infertility had been ruled out. The researchers discovered that the womb lining in these women had high levels of the enzyme SGK1. Conversely, the women suffering from recurrent pregnancy loss had low levels of SGK1.

Monday, April 03, 2017


Sharing news of your pregnancy

Many people are so excited about their pregnancy, that they share it with the world on social media like Facebook and other sites.  The problem is, if things don't go as planned and a woman miscarries, it creates a dilemma as to how to handle it.

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  I was pregnant before I ever had a facebook account, however, we were very careful not to tell anyone about my pregnancy until I had finished my first trimester and we were fairly certain the pregnancy would make it.   Here is one woman's story:

"Facebook made it infinitely harder," says Jenna Lemaster of Palm Desert, Calif., who miscarried at 18 weeks. "I chose to take down the pictures and my postings about the pregnancy," but then she felt guilty. "I didn't want to pretend like it never happened, but I had to remove it so I could heal and not have a constant reminder."
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Miscarriage can lead to depression that can last from a few months to several years, experts say. And women tend to feel they are being observed in their grief, even if a miscarriage is not announced online, says Julianne Zweifel, a clinical psychologist in the department of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Wisconsin. "That feeling of being observed is only expanded when women share in the social space," she says. "Women don't want to appear as oversad or judged as melodramatic. But if they are doing OK, they wonder if they come off as cold or uncaring."
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Saturday, April 01, 2017


I have a DVD called "Fertility Bodywork" where I demonstrate the acupressure points to help enhance fertility, but can acupressure help prevent miscarriage? This article explains how it may help prevent pregnancy loss.  Read more:
  • Acupressure treatment for pregnant women is generally initiated in the first week through to the twelfth. It is beneficial for mothers to be as it facilitates absorption of nutrients and hormones, cutting down the risk of miscarriage.
  • Capitalizing on what the body is already doing right, acupressure points encourage correct positioning of the baby, promote lactation and reduce post-partum pain. In fact, there are points which can be stimulated in order to induce labour naturally.
  • A point located at the top of the head on the skull is actually one of the acupressure points to prevent miscarriage and stop bleeding.
  • However, there are certain points that an acupressure practitioner must avoid on a pregnant lady. While dull pressure is ok, pinpoint pressuring must be avoided at all times.
  • Acupressure points near ankles, the SP6 located at three fingers’ width above the ankle and
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    Hegu on the hand should be avoided under all circumstances. If manipulated, this point can lead to preterm contractions, resulting in premature birth.
  • Points on the lower abdomen and lower back should be avoided to prevent any injury to the foetus. 

Tuesday, March 28, 2017


Pregnancy After Recurrent Miscarriage

This article is tragic but inspirational. This woman tried to build a family for 18 years.
She suffered multiple miscarriage and the loss of her son. But she finally had a normal pregnancy after 18 years. Good things can happen, even after so much loss. Read more:


On October 31, three weeks before their baby was due, Tina noticed she’d lost some blood. She got to
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hospital and six pushes later was holding her perfect baby daughter and counting her fingers and toes. They called her Kara Jacqualene after the doctor who helped them so much.

“When I held Kara for the first time it didn’t seem real,” says Tina.

“All the years of sadness make us love her more. No matter what she asks for, she’ll probably get it. Jack could never ask for anything – I can’t wait for her to ask for things.”

They have bought Kara lots of toys and have been inundated with baby clothes. “She has a better wardrobe than me,” jokes Tina.

“Jack would have adored her. He loved children. When she’s old enough we’ll tell her all about her amazing brother and how we never gave up on her.

“She is our dream come true."


Sunday, March 26, 2017


A Willingness to Live - A Clairvoyant's View of Baby Psychology and Parent Psychology

Guest Post By Jean Mastellone

I am a clairvoyant with an unusual ability to see deeply into the human subconscious. I have worked as a clairvoyant researcher for over 20 years in a project whose objective was to discover the root cause of negative human experience. During that time, while tracking child, teen, and adult destructive behavior patterns, I have recorded hundreds of segments detailing the psychological
experience of the person's womb life. The following are some of my clairvoyant observations relating to prenatal psychology and life inside the womb.
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Baby psychology and parent psychology are interconnected. We have much to learn about baby psychology and positive parenting. What typically goes on subconsciously and psychologically between babies and their parents is extremely influential and often shocking.



Willingness to live and grow
In order to stay and grow, an embryo body has many developmental obstacles to get through. There are zillions of connections that have to be made perfectly. This takes a degree of physical and mental health on the part of both baby and mother. The embryo consciousness, from conception, is participating in making those connections with his or her willingness to live and grow. The embryo's cooperation is a definite factor in personal health and development.
This participation and cooperation became apparent to me while I was clairvoyantly reading a mother who had had two miscarriages and desperately wanted to keep her current baby. At first, I thought the embryo consciousness was "dormant" or sleeping, but later I saw that she in fact was actively and subconsciously communicating with her mother by expressing her willingness to live. The mother was "willing" her baby to stay and grow and the embryo was "willing" the same. Together, they were getting through places of potential danger where certain hook-ups could have been weak or flawed. I sensed at that time that if people could consciously tap-into their full memory files, they would be able to remember exactly how their embryo body had been formed.
While observing a four-week-old embryo, I saw that the baby's mother had subconsciously put negative thought energy on her baby because she was extremely upset about being pregnant. Amazingly, I saw the natural energies in the DNA that were sustaining life and creating physical growth begin to push the mother's negative psychological energy out of the embryo's body, aura, and living space. This energetic activity clearly seemed to be a natural, spontaneous repelling action. It allowed the embryo to continue growing unimpeded by her parent's abrasive negative mental and emotional energies that were being directed toward her. I saw the same phenomena on several other occasions with different embryos. Nonetheless, this natural protective response seemed to occur only within the first eight weeks after conception.
Moving up in the womb world
The physical position of an unborn baby in the womb has psychological dimensions. I have repeatedly seen that an embryo's physical growth and psychological development were related to the mother's "energy centers" (Chakras) that are located in the lower portion of her physical body. In particular, the first, second, and third energy centers play a significant role during pregnancy and prenatal development. I found this remarkable.
I saw that conception occurred in the aura of the first energy center, the "survival center," at the base of the mother's spine. As the embryo grew and developed, the baby moved up into the area of the second center, which is the "feeling center." This is the area where emotional and sexual energies are felt, exchanged, and stored as "memory."
Waking up to feelings
When I observed an embryo first waking up to feelings, the baby was positioned in the mother's feeling center (second energy center) and was becoming a "feeling human."
The two-week old unborn babies in my studies began feeling and responding to their mothers' conscious and subconscious feelings and emotional states. As they grew and matured, they moved into the aura of the mothers' third energy center, which is the "activity center." At this point, the babies had become substantially larger, more physically developed, and more active,
The willingness to live is important at any stage in life. It means a willingness to be alive in the truest sense of those words. It means ongoing health on a mental, emotional, and physical level. This kind of aliveness requires right choices that we can all, anytime we are willing, naturally sense and choose that goal.
Prenatal psychology is a controversial topic primarily because of the abortion issue. Scientific studies directed toward identifying facts about prenatal psychology (conducted mainly outside the U.S,) have been ongoing for the past 40 years. Many scientific findings coincide with what I see when I look inside the womb.
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Thursday, March 23, 2017


Clomid and Pregnancy Loss

Clomid is a commonly prescribed drug to help stimulate ovulation. I'm sure many women who've miscarried and previously taken Clomid may wonder whether or not this drug which initially was taken to help them get pregnant could possibly have contributed to their miscarriage.


Here is an interesting article which may draw a connection between Clomid, the uterine lining, and miscarriage. Read more:

When things go wrong, chances are great that the problems had nothing to do with the Clomid. However, there have recently been some reports of paradoxical responses to Clomid that cause the uterine lining to be thinned. This can be measured by ultrasound in the second half of your cycle. I've read reports that baby aspirin treatment may improve the thickness of thin uterine linings. Clomid can indirectly raise your risk of miscarriage because it causes you to ovulate more eggs than you normally would, possibly including imperfect eggs that your body might normally censor. Since there is a greater likelihood of ovulating eggs that are defective (along with the healthy ones) there is a greater risk of miscarrying. The imperfect eggs are what might cause the pregnancy loss
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Tuesday, March 21, 2017


Music For Pregnancy Loss

Music seems to be such a positive force in life. I found music to be very comforting during the tough times - especially after having a miscarriage. I had a small memorial service (by myself) for each baby I lost, and music was a part of that.


 Here is an article about how music can help couples through miscarriage:

For weeks after her first miscarriage, the only notes that could escape the throat of liturgical music minister Monica Perz-Waddington belonged to the traditional Quaker tune "How Can I Keep from Singing?" Calling this effort "somewhat of a lament and an affirmation at the same time," Perz-Waddington used this song to surface from underneath her "rock" of depression. Then, armed
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with a strong, soulful voice and a love of God, the music minister at Arlington?s 11:15 a.m. Mass at Our Lady, Queen of Peace Church and 6 p.m. Mass at St. Charles Borromeo Church, leaned on her faith and found healing through the power of music.

In the fall of 2003, Perz-Waddington released "Truly Loved," a self-funded compact disc filled with 10 songs and one Scripture reading designed to bring peace to families who have lost children through miscarriages.
The title track of the compilation was written entirely by Perz-Waddington, sketched out in 1999 when a friend miscarried her baby and completed in 2001 when she lost a baby of her own. With its clear lyrics and simple instrumentation, "Truly Loved" tugs at the heart of the grief that miscarriage brings but concurrently embraces the peace of knowing that the miscarried child knew only love.
"Losing a baby before it is born is just as real as losing a baby after it?s born," said Perz-Waddington. "My song and my CD are very affirming about the value of that life. It acknowledges that, and that it?s okay to grieve."


Sunday, March 19, 2017


Miscarriage Over 40 Prevention - Go Easy On Exercise

 I have always suspected that too much exercise will not only affect your ability to get pregnant, but also your ability to stay pregnant (especially in early pregnancy). I actually address this in my book. I don't know the science behind it, but it just makes logical sense to me that if your body is bouncing around with high impact exercise, it would be harder for an embryo to "take hold" and implant the way it should. So many sources basically dismiss any association between exercise and miscarriage. However, this article talks about a study that was done on exercise in early pregnancy and how it does seem to increase the risk of miscarriage:

After collecting the data about the participants, the researchers compared women who did not take any exercise at all with those who exercised more than seven hours a week or played “high-impact” sports, such as ball games and racket sports. 

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It was found that women who played "high-impact" sports or who exercised for more than seven hours a week were approximately three-and-a-half times more likely to miscarry.

The researchers also found that miscarriage was far rarer later in pregnancy, and that the association between exercise and miscarriage disappeared
one of the three mafter the 18-week mark.

"The results of this study suggest that leisure time exercise during pregnancy, and particularly high-impact exercise, is associated with an increased risk of miscarriage in the early stage of pregnancy," the BBC quoted the authors of the study as writing in the British Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology.

However, the study has also shown that swimming, which is one of the most popular exercises among pregnant women, does not increase the risk of miscarriage. 

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Thursday, March 16, 2017


Miscarriage:  Supportive Tender Loving Care May Help

I used to think that a doctor or nurse's "bedside manner" really didn't mean much. I just wanted good care.  I recall dealing with a number of different healthcare professionals who just did not know what to say to a woman who suffered this type of loss.  I got everything from, "You can always adopt", to a blank stare and a fast exit out of the room.  I was surprised because people who work in OB/GYN must see quite a few women who experience miscarriage.  You would think they would know better.

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But this article talks about how support from your health professionals can actually have an affect on future pregnancy success
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In the first study, researchers screened 195 couples with recurrent miscarriages and found identifiable causes of the miscarriages in 56%. In the remaining couples with no abnormalities, 86% of couples receiving counseling and support carried their pregnancies to term as compared to 33% who received no special care. 
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Tuesday, March 14, 2017


Miscarriage Pevention with Raw Food

This article is from a woman who experienced repeated miscarriage, especially as she got older.
 Her philosophy and the actions she took sound very similar to mine. Eating the right foods does wonders for your body and can help balance hormones to get you back on track. Read more:

From the article:

I am a big believer in what the right food can do for us, and if we are a woman experiencing miscarriages, eating more raw live food could never hurt your present situation....only improve it. So many fertility issues can be improved by changing to a raw diet as well as implementing exercise. Certainly not all of them, but many can. In my case it was age related infertility that was the culprit.
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The raw food improved my endocrine function as well as my egg quality which therefore made it possible to successfully conceive. In the case of endometriosis, raw food can improve liver function and therefore better rid the body of the excess estrogen that is the culprit in that disease. In the case of PCOS, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, the endocrine system is in such chaos, raw food can only improve and better regulate this condition, more than anything processed or from store shelves. Whenever possible eat from the ground, so to speak.

Eating this way won't solve any miscarriage issues overnight. It takes a number of months to see the benefits of living this way depending on what conditions are causing the miscarriages. Its not like taking pharmaceuticals that have a sudden aggressive impact. These are nutrients that our bodies were made for and are familiar with. They work gently, but make no mistake, just because you may not suddenly feel different, doesn't mean that it's not working it's magic. This food is effective for so many conditions, infertility is just one of them. The condition of our endocrine system that regulates reproduction, as well as our egg quality are profoundly affected by diet. Improving the nourishment that these are getting over the course of some months will have a favorable outcome on your reproductive potential to maximize conception success. If a strong healthy conception takes place, you will then carry to term. So much of preventing miscarriage happens in the time prior to the conception by way of what we are eating and our lifestyle as a whole.

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Friday, March 10, 2017


10 Things About Anniversaries Post-Loss

Guest Post By Nathalie Himmelrich
1. Anniversary reactions are normal
Even years after the loss you may have emotional reactions to anniversaries. You might feel sad, angry, contemplative or any other emotions. Remembering them as being normal can help you understand and take them as healing opportunities.
2. Do whatever feels right for you
Take it in your hands, take responsibility to make the day meaningful / helpful / healing-ful for you. Healing is YOUR choice, remembering too.
There are many ideas and suggestions out there: search Google to find many more ideas. Read up on ideas and make your choice.
If you have done something special please share it in the comments for others to read and benefit.


3. Manage your expectations of others
This might sound harsh but no one is required to remember your loved one. Thinking that others
should/need to... will turn into disappointment. Everyone is doing the best they can, some remember but prefer not to talk about it and some don't remember. In addition, they are not mind readers and therefore do not know whether you prefer to talk about your child or not. In general, society does keep quiet for 'fear' of the potential emotional reaction they might trigger.
4. Speak up
Say what you need. Involve those that are important to you. On the first birthday of my daughter I asked the family to bring something from nature, like a stone, feather etc. to remember Amya. We held a small circle and each person was invited to speak. This is what I needed and by letting people know, it happened. On the girls 2nd birthday, I made a memorial video of Amya. Just for myself - the way I wanted to honour Amya.
5. Be true to yourself
What you feel like doing, or not doing, is not necessarily what another mother or father chooses to do. Stay true to yourself. There is no guideline on what needs to happen on anniversaries.
6. Guilt
Please remember guilt is reserved for a purposeful act intended to harm someone physically or emotionally. This is not the case if you don't feel like doing something but think you should... Be gentle with yourself and - you're doing it right by doing what feels right.
7. My partner does think about him/her
Generally speaking, more often women feel that their man does not think or remember the child's birthday or anniversary. Even though it might be true that men more often forget special dates, be aware of what you imply: Have you asked him (or her)?
More often than not, men tend to internalise their processes and women externalise them. Having interviewed many bereaved parents, both fathers and mothers I do know that it is not true that they don't remember. They do. They just have different ways to do it.
8. Let people know
As mentioned before, people do not know unless you tell them. Help people understand what it is you need by letting them know.
9. A word about self-expectations
Beside the expectation we have of others, we also consciously or unconsciously internalise what we have heard or read. Expecting yourself to be, react or experience different that you are leads to self imposed stress. Notice if that is what is happening. Let go. Allow yourself to be the way it is.
10. Any day can be a 'remembrance' day
Any day you have loaded with meaning can trigger beautiful or stressful memories. As in life in general, so in post-loss life. If you have too many days loaded with stressful triggers of grief, maybe it's time to off-load them and re-load them with more helpful meaning. I will show you how in a future post. Stay tuned.
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Nathalie Himmelrich is the founder of 'Reach for the Sky Counselling & Coaching' and specialises in Relationship Transformation and Grief Support. She is working with individuals and couples using techniques ranging from Meta Coaching, Transformational Counselling, Neuro Linguistic Programming to Journey Therapy. She supports clients in their personal growth in a supportive and professional environment. She is also the author of the forthcoming book 'Grieving Parents - Surviving Loss As A Couple'.
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Tuesday, March 07, 2017


Should You Give Your Miscarried Baby A Name?

I never thought about actually naming the babies I lost through miscarriage - especially since I had so many. Here are some reasons you may want to name your baby:

  • Naming your baby will give you a specific way to remember them.  Because I had so many miscarriage, there are times that I forget the days, years and so on.  Granted, there are parts of me that want to forget those painful memories, but it can be very healing to acknowledge the pregnancy before trying to move on.
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  • If you have other children, it may help them understand that the miscarriage was the loss of an actual person and a family member
  • Naming your baby gives them respect.  Your miscarriage was not just a cluster of cells, it had the potential to be a member of society and a person with a full life.
  • Giving your lost baby a name will help others who are having difficulty communicating with you about your loss.  It give you and them a way to refer to your pregnancy without having to avoid the subject.

Sunday, March 05, 2017


Miscarriage and Your Drinking Water

Arsenic in your water? It's almost unthinkable, however according to the article below, some areas in the United States could have contaminated water which could affect genes in the fetus. Read more:

From the article:

(HealthDay News) -- Children of women exposed to arsenic-contaminated water during pregnancy
have gene expression changes that may result in cancer and other diseases later in life, a Massachusetts Institute of Technology study suggests.

The researchers, who said their work is the first documentation of widespread genetic changes caused by prenatal exposure to an environmental contaminant, analyzed umbilical cord blood from the children of 32 mothers in an area of Thailand with heavy mining-related arsenic contamination.
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Similar levels of arsenic are found in many other parts of the world, including the U.S. Southwest.


Children who were exposed to arsenic in the womb had about 450 genes that were either significantly more active (in most cases) or less active than the same genes in unexposed children.

Most of the gene expression changes detected in the exposed children are associated with inflammation, which can lead to increased cancer risk. It's not clear how long these gene expression changes may last, and the researchers plan to continue testing the children.

The researchers also found that a subset of 11 of these genes could be used as a highly reliable test for determining whether a child had been exposed to arsenic while in the womb.

The study was published in the Nov. 23 issue of the journal PLoS Genetics


Thursday, March 02, 2017


Miscarriage:  10 Things You May Not Know

There are some misconceptions about miscarriage. Many women haven't ever gone through a miscarriage so when they have one, they rely on what they have heard which many times isn't accurate or may not be applicable in their case.  Here are some things I wished I had known or that I
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learned after having so many miscarriages of my own:

1.  It may take HcG over a month to get out of your system:
Even though a miscarriage has expelled from your body, HcG (the pregnancy hormone) takes a while to completely get out of your body.  This can lead to feeling pregnant even though you are not.  It can also cause a positive result on a pregnancy test.

2.  Bleeding or Spotting Doesn't Always Lead To Miscarriage.  I spotted with all my pregnancies, including my completely normal pregnancy which led to the birth of my daughter.  Spotting can be caused my a number of factors, and not all of them will lead to a miscarriage...
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Sunday, February 26, 2017


Miscarriage and Toxic Chemicals

Most of us love the idea of new carpet and furniture, however, according to this article, these items may be treated with flame retardants which can adversely affect pregnant women - even to the point of miscarriage. Even some clothing is treated with these chemicals. Read more:

This is the first study with a sufficient sample size to evaluate the association between PBDE flame retardants and thyroid function in pregnant women," said the study's lead author, Jonathan Chevrier, a UC Berkeley researcher in epidemiology and in environmental health sciences. "Normal maternal thyroid hormone levels are essential for normal fetal growth and brain development, so our findings could have significant public health implications. These results suggest that a closer examination between PBDEs and these outcomes is needed."...


...Low TSH and normal T4 levels are an indication of subclinical hyperthyroidism, which is often the first step leading toward clinical hyperthyroidism," said Chevrier. "Though the health effect of subclinical hyperthyroidism during pregnancy is not well understood, maternal clinical hyperthyroidism is linked to altered fetal neurodevelopment, increased risk of miscarriage, premature birth and intrauterine growth retardation."

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Monday, February 20, 2017


Miscarriage, How Folic Acid and CoQ10 May Help Prevent Miscarriage and Lower Homocysteine

We all have heard the importance of folic acid to help prevent birth defects, but folic acid deficiency has also been associated with miscarriage. This article also talks about the importance of CoQ10.

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The following therapies may help to prevent miscarriage:

Folic Acid:


Women who are deficient in folic acid have up to three times the risk of miscarriage compared with non-deficient women.

One of the causes of miscarriage is elevated levels of the toxic amino acid, homocysteine. Folic acid reduces homocysteine levels.


400 – 800 mcg per day.



Several human studies have found that women who experience a miscarriage have significantly lower serum selenium levels compared with pregnant women who do not miscarry.

A study conducted on sheep found that selenium supplementation helped to prevent miscarriages.

Selenium’s protective effect against miscarriage is believed to occur via its antioxidant properties (especially its role in the generation of the enzyme glutathione peroxidase).


200 – 400 mcg per day.

Coenzyme Q10:


Two clinical studies have demonstrated that women with low plasma coenzyme Q10 levels have an increased incidence of miscarriage.


50 - 100 mg per day.

Vitamin B6:


Elevated homocysteine levels increase the risk of miscarriage. Vitamin B6 supplementation helps to lower elevated homocysteine levels and may thereby reduce the risk of miscarriage.


50 – 250 mg per day.


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