Surviving a Stillbirth

All of my miscarriages were in the first trimester - so I can't claim to even begin to understand the heartbreak and devastation women go through when their near full-term baby dies. Here is an article from the American Pregnancy Assn. about what to expect with a stillbirth and surviving emotionally:
American Pregnancy Assn.
From the article:
Saying Hello, Goodbye, and Making Memories:
After the tests are completed, you will have the usually have the choice to spend time alone with your baby. You can find comfort in looking at, touching, and talking to your baby. Most parents find it helpful to make memories of this precious time that will last a lifetime. Here are a few ways you can make memories with your baby:
You can give your baby a bath and dress them in a special outfit. Before leaving the hospital you can take the booty or hat to have as a keepsake.
You can take pictures of your baby.
The hospital staff can give you handprints and or footprints.
You may want to take a lock of your baby’s hair.
It may seem odd at first but you can read a story or sing a lullaby to your baby.
If you would like, the nurse can record your baby’s measurements.
You probably have also named your baby by now. Be sure to tell the hospital staff as soon as possible so all documents can have your baby’s name listed.
You can have your baby christened or blessed while in the hospital.
A baptism certificate will also be given to you to keep.




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